Why does everything seem to go wrong? Because most things DO go wrong. The reason this life rarely caters to our personal desires for order and perfection, is that it is an experience of evil God is giving us (Ecclesiastes 1:13), not an experience of order and perfection. The good stuff is saved up for the next life. In the meantime, God graciously provides us the necessary contrast now to appreciate that life when it comes. Yes, this is precisely why you are constantly looking for your car keys.